Свекровь: как тебе удалось затащить моего сына в ЗАГС, до тебя это никому не удавалось

Mother-in-law: how did you manage to drag my son to the registry office, no one has managed it before you

I was lucky with a man. And before the wedding, I thought that I had an ideal relationship with my mother-in-law.

At the time of our acquaintance, I was living with my parents and had several loans, which took almost all of my salary. I took them for home repairs and for the treatment of my parents.

But this not only did not alienate my future spouse, but made me proud that I took money for the right things.

And before the wedding, I thought that I also had an ideal relationship with my mother-in-law. She did not meddle in our affairs, did not give advice, did not turn my future husband against me.

For the first time, an alarm bell rang in her head when her husband announced his desire to register our relationship. She was surprised.

– How did you manage to drag him to the registry office, no one has ever managed before.

But I decided not to attach any importance to this, especially since later she began to say that she did not accept a divorce. If you have decided to get married, then it should be forever.

On the wedding day, I was so excited that I didn't notice anything around me. Make-up, hairstyle, dress, veil, a full house of guests. They congratulated me, gave me flowers and gifts, my mother cried and asked me not to leave my native nest. The registry office quickly painted, and at the exit several photographers captured the moments of our happiness.

Everything was so magical that I did not pay attention to how my mother and mother-in-law began to feud with each other. Until this day, they were not introduced, but knowing the good-natured nature of my parent, I doubt that she started the conflict. But I brushed that off, too. I felt too good to spoil my mood.

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Subsequently, my mother flatly refused to contact this woman. However, the mother-in-law also did not ask for family gatherings. The problem in the relationship was formed a few months after the wedding. My mother – in – law came to stay at our apartment-she lives in another city-and invited me to go shopping with her.

I was only happy to establish a relationship, so I agreed without hesitation.

The conversation began after the shopping. I was carrying bags, and my mother-in-law was pacing beside me.

– I haven't had a major renovation in my apartment for a long time, " she began.

I didn't understand the hint, so after a little thought, my mother-in-law decided to go from the other side.

- Except for my son, there are no heirs to my apartment. I will die, and he will get everything, so it would be nice to refresh the finish right now. And then suddenly I don't have long left.

Again, I didn't understand what she was getting at. My husband regularly transferred money to my mother-in-law, a very good amount. And just for the repair of that very apartment. We talked about this even before the wedding and came to an agreement that as soon as I close my loans, we start saving for our housing. Until then, he helps his mother financially.

I again ignored her statement, but my mother-in-law is not a timid person...